As I write about in the book, IBL – Involved But Looking – has become the relationship status a la mode in the world of any. When there are tens of millions of dating opportunities anywhere in the world, who would want to definitely close all doors? Still, there’s a reason why celebrities and rich people date and marry more people, and faster (go back and refresh your memory with Pam Anderson, Ivana Trump, Eddie Murphy and the gang in the happily-ever-after-list posts) – meeting, dating, marrying and divorcing people take time and money.
Though most of us have the money (or will soon, as the GDP keeps running towards the sky, though with a temporary hiccup right now), we still lack the time. One solution I wrote about previously is minidating, like woome.com.
Another one is virtual engagements and marriages.
Last week, a 43-year old Japanese housewife was arrested for murder of her husband. Or rather, the virtual murder of her virtual husband, to be more specific. Her husband in the virtual game “Maple Story” preferred to stay IBL – thinking that would be the beauty of a virtual marriage, it does not stop you from engaging in several others – and when she found out, she becam furious and managed to, somehow, log into his account and kill the 33-year old man’s online alter ego. Herself being married IRL (In Real Life, in case you mind is still in the old millennium), she could not stand her virtual husband’s betrayal.
She now faces a 5,000 dollar fine (that would probably be no problem in the world of any) and 5 years in jail (a bit more of a problem).
This is nothing particular to Japan, in August a woman in Delaware, USA, was charged with planning a kidnapping of the IRL version of her Second Life fiancé to keep him off the IBL track.
Could IBL be the offenders’ new millennium version of the miniskirt? Back in 1900’s, demented rapists would argue that a woman wearing a miniskirt “asked for trouble”. In the new millennium, at least one woman from Japan and and one from the US would argue that being IBL is asking for it, too…
Remember what day tomorrow is?


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